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Tampa Top Matchmaker  

Tampa top matchmaker Janis Spindel and daughter Carly developed a new service for their captains of industry, former politicians and hedge fund managers to find love, all starting at $25,000 and goes up to $1,000,000. 

Janis Spindel is a two-time national best selling author. Together, Janis and Carly Spindel are responsible for 13 short of 4,000 marriages to date and can help you find a successful marriage minded partner. Call 212.987.1582 to learn how.

You can now connect with Janis and Carly on their dating show Flash Match NYC Webinars. Listen to the interview on Yahoo Finance. 

Here is a dating tip from one of the Spindel’s books:

Chapter 3: Embrace Your Life

When you’re looking to meet Mr. Right, realize that what you put out there is who will be drawn to you. If you put out mediocracy, that’s what you’ll attract. Do you want a mediocre man? I certainly hope not! If you exude marvelousness and the best, you’ll catch the eye of someone who is extraordinary.  You have to get your mindset right. When you think positive, you attract enthusiastic people. Your attitude and mentality determine who your partner will be.

Let’s take it one step further. If you’re a Negative Nancy, you probably aren’t very much fun to be around. No one wants to be around a downer. So many women complain and aren’t a good time to be around. Do you think a man wants to be around someone who is a drag 24/7? Absolutely not! You should be someone that men can’t stop thinking about. Men want to date a woman who is vibrant, happy, and smiles. They want to date a woman who is fun and makes them a lot of fun. Of course, life isn’t all fun and games. Sometimes you might have a tough day at work. You might be stressed about your family or friends, and that’s okay. But if you have a permanent resting bitch face and your overall attitude is anything but joyful, you shouldn’t be dating.

You have to take action and embrace your life. Take advantage of what your area has to offer. Explore it and see what different activities you like. Your couch will always be there, and so will your TV. DVR was created so people can live fuller lives. Make an effort to look into as many things as you can to enrich your life. People appreciate culture because it improves the quality of their life. When you have a lot of things going on, let’s face it, you’re pretty impressive.  How cool would it be to have a life so stupendous that men are in awe of you?

For some it’s cooking classes, others prefer museums, many enjoy sporting events, and almost everyone likes traveling. Whatever tickles your fancy, do it often. This way, people will want to be around you. If you have a lot of unique things to talk about and wonderful experiences, you’re pretty special. Even though I sound like a broken record, you want men to think you’re outstanding. They should meet you and have a hard time forgetting you.