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Matchmaker Carly Spindel With Her $5,000 Flash Match NYC 

One of the benefits of retaining the matchmaking services of Flash Match NYC for $5,000 with 4 introductions or $10,000 with 10 introductions, is the benefit of a real live matchmaker approving all suggested matches by Carly’s private online client and member database. 

Once the system suggests matches for Carly’s clients, Carly approves each member’s private online profile photo that is sent to the client for approval. Once the client makes his selections, the system sends those members the clients private online profile photo to see if it’s a mutual match. 

When those selected members tell the system YES they agree to meet off line for an introduction, Flash Match NYC has done its job.  The client officially retains Flash Match NYC by paying the $5,000 or $10,000 invoice, releasing the client and members preferred contact information with each other. For those that know Janis or Carly Spindel, Flash Match NYC has a limited time soft launch offer at $15,000 with 18 introductions.

All members have gone through a double screening process and met with Janis and Carly to make sure they are who they say they are and they look like their private online member profile photos. Flash Match NYC clients find this a benefit of knowing Carly and or Janis met each member before approving them. This has been the matchmaking business model since first incorporated in 1993.

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St Louis Matchmakers  

St. Louis matchmakers Janis Spindel and Carly Spindel are champions of love and charge their high end clients $600,000 to $1 Million dollars to find love.  Janis and her daughter Carly are responsible for 4,012 marriages to date and travel the country seeking successful marriage minded men and women to pair up.

The St. Louis matchmakers are the longest standing service and has remained faithful to traditional matchmaking, with the flood of online dating sites. 

Our clients are captains of industry and are a lot more technical and entrepreneurs. The men are getting younger, starting at age 26 and up to age 80. Read the full interview on Yahoo Finance. 

Here is a dating tip from the St. Louis matchmakers:

Chapter 2 – Get Yourself Ready For Love

Now that you know you deserve love, and the best kind of love possible, it’s time to get yourself ready. Thankfully, Prince Charming exists. I’ve met him, many, many times. There are more single women in every city, so it’s up to you to get yourself ready for love.  

Men are looking for women with the 4 B’s – known as Beauty, Brains, Body, and Balance. Don’t fret, I’m about to define and explain them.

Beauty is defined as someone who takes pride in her appearance. Not everyone wakes up looking like a Super model. That would be nice, but it isn’t realistic. When you take care of yourself and your appearance, it shows. So, how do you make yourself and your appearance look amazing? You read on of course!

Dermatologists, spas, and skincare lines are all doing really well for a reason. When women put their best foot forward, it shows. Your hair and your skin are the first thing that a man sees so you want to make sure they both are extraordinary.

Go the extra mile to ensure that your skin is beautiful. See a dermatologist who can put you on a skincare routine so that you may not be a famous Super Model, but you sure feel like one. Spend a few extra dollars to ensure that your hair is voluminus and luscious. Good hair isn’t hard to have. You need to treat it right by getting it cut, possibly colored, conditioned, and styled. If you were born with frizzy hair, don’t worry, that’s why keratin treatments were created. Hair salons are known to change unruly messy hair into beautiful, lustrous locks.

Part of being beautiful is being put together. Men are looking for women who look great and have a presence when they walk into the room. Your wardrobe is more important than you think. Men notice a stylish woman. Don’t misunderstand – well dressed doesn’t mean your wardrobe has to cost thousands of dollars. You can have awesome clothes in any budget. Being fashionable also does not mean showing too much skin. Don’t get having a great sense of style confused with dressing super duper sexy. Slutty isn’t sexy. Men are attracted to tastefully dressed women. You can show off your figure without showing too much. When it comes to your wardrobe, more is more!

Onto the next B, brains. Brains is defined as someone who can carry a conversation and enhance to a man’s life. You don’t have to have graduated from an Ivy League school to be considered smart. When you’re in the know of what’s going on in the world, have an opinion, and can have a conversation on any subject, you’re considered a catch. You should skim the papers and briefly watch the news once a day so you’re in the loop.

Body comes next. Men want women with a bodacious body. It may sound cheesy, but it’s what they want. Men are attracted to women who are in great shape. You don’t have to be a double D with a 00 waist. That wouldn’t be realistic. Men aren’t looking for a grown up barbie doll. They want to date a woman who is toned and healthy. Cellulite isn’t attractive and neither is a gut. However, being too skinny isn’t appealing either. Men want to date women who are active and athletic. When exercise is a part of your life, you are happier overall. You’re more balanced, which leads me into the next point.

Being balanced means you’re able to multi-task really, really well. You have to lead an active lifestyle where you can prioritize the important things in your life. Men want to date a woman who can put them first. A woman who is able to juggle exercising, work, her friends and family, and her man is a real keeper. When you lead a balanced lifestyle, you’re stress free most of the time. You’re relaxed and happy. You enjoy your life and take advantage of making it great. You’re the kind of woman most men want to meet.

You have to be the best version of yourself that you can be. You have to be the prettiest, smartest, most wonderful version of yourself. All men want to date a woman who is free of baggage and hangups. Drama should be left to the professional actors and actresses. You should lead with positivity and discard all negativity.

During the Covid 19 pandemic, you might develop non romantic friends when searching online dating sites. Be careful and be safe. Stay informed with the new Amazon audio book Janis and Carly wrote. It’s live and available. 

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