Carly Spindel Opens Flash Match NYC For $5,000 Matchmaking With Future Captains Of Industry

From the time Carly Spindel was in a stroller listening to her mom’s matchmaking conversations, Carly developed extraordinary listening skills that have allowed her to create Flash Match NYC.

Flash Match NYC is the byproduct of several different communication models under one roof. It’s a place where members have gone through a double screening process of paying $25 for a one-time application and an additional $250 for a one-time consultation with Janis and Carly. It’s a place where we know our members look like their private online profile photos look and they are who they say they are. This is the competitive advantage that the mother-daughter matchmaking team has developed and perfected since 1993 when first Inc.

Flash Match NYC is also a place where clients are assured when Carly’s new systems algorithm generates suggested matches for them, the members that the client is interested in going out with will be shown his private online profile photo.

Once the member tells the system yes I agree to meet the client off-line, it’s a match! The other component that Carly used when designing Flash Match NYC came from one of Janis clients’ suggestions. He told Janis that he would pay $1,000 to one of her staff members who would sort through all his potential matches. He confessed finding a compatible match online was very time consuming. It was worth it to him to outsource that task. Hence, Flash Match NYC shines like a bright star. Clients pay $5,000 and receive mutually agreed introductions from Carly’s private online database.

Where Carly’s basic traditional matchmaking fee in New York begins at $25,000 and goes up to $1 million for the mother-daughter VIP world love tour, Flash Match NYC is designed with a lower barrier to entry for the future captains of industry, up and comer and allows more introductions between members and clients. The basic level of Flash Match NYC begins at $5,000 for 4 introductions or $10,000 for 10 introductions.

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Carly Spindel is the Connecticut luxury traditional matchmaker. Together with Janis Spindel since 1993, they are responsible for 4,012 marriages to date. Their process of finding women who have the 4B’s (beauty, brain, body and balance) is the secret to their success. Men pay upwards of $1 Million Dollars to find the love of their life. No expense is spared by these billionaire clients who have everything except true love. The Spindel’s are known for delivering.

When a prospective client reaches out to the Connecticut luxury traditional matchmaker, the process is very set. Janis and Carly have developed their process and in order to consider the retention of the Spindel’s, men must call the office and set up a dinner with Janis and Carly. At dinner, the man is asking his set of questions and the ladies are asking theirs. It’s when a mutual understanding and agreement is formed, that’s when the gentleman becomes a client.

The first question the man asks is if Janis can guarantee he will find a wife from the introductions. Janis’ standard, battle tested reply is that she will deliver exactly what he asked for and who she feels is his wife should be. The only component we can’t account for is chemistry. Carly Spindel and Janis Spindel luxury matchmaking won’t take on gold diggers looking for a sugar daddy. Carly can filter out gold diggers rather easily by asking just a few key questions. On the other hand, men will not become clients if they have unrealistic expectations. If a 48 year old billionaire is interested in a woman not older than 30, that’s a deal breaker for Carly.

It’s strongly suggested that if a man is somewhat interested in the woman Carly introduced him to, that he ask her out again. Many times, the first date is rather nerve racking and women are not themselves. Sometimes the man is not himself. On the second date, the man can make a much more informed decision. Men want a woman that can bring something to the table. Listen to Yahoo Finance and Janis.

Janis and Carly launched their secrets to running a $13 million dollar a year matchmaking service and its live on Amazon with an audio book.

One of the dating tips Carly Spindel writes about for the Huff Post, is how when a man has charisma, he is defined as having swagger, being unique, and possessing a certain je ne sais quoi, or just not being “vanilla.”

When a man is charismatic, it makes him that much cooler. Women love a man who is charming. Women will find you irresistible and want to date you.

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